Moving from dating into a relationship
For you to move on, you have to first know whether you have moved on or not.Here are 12 signs to tell if you have not moved on: The moving on process will take time, probably longer than you might think.As you connect with these emotions, slowly let them go.Feel them, understand the source, then release them.Some suggestions would be to talk to a good friend, journaling or meditation.Sleeping helps to clear mental baggage too – but just be conscious that you don’t turn to sleep as a source of escapism.
To be honest, it really shocked me to know the amount of baggage that was stored inside me all this while, despite actively living consciously.
For myself, reading your responses and experiences have given me the invaluable opportunity to learn about you. All these require an ability to think consciously and to maintain a level of objectivity, which is hard because such matters are usually linked to deep sorrows and injured pride. Thinking you have moved on and having really moved on.
Meanwhile, please enjoy the last part of this series. If it wasn’t for my experience with G, I’d think moving on is just a matter of putting the past behind us. In the former, you continue to live under the shadow of that person or relationship without realizing it.
You think you have been liberated but truth is you are still living in a mental prison as you keep thinking about the person and past memories.
This prevents you from receiving new things in your life.
There were many times when I came to a new revelation and thought I had thus moved on, only to realize afterward there was more inner baggage to be cleared.