Warning signs of dating a loser
When a high number of these features are present - it's not a probably or possibility.
You will be hurt and damaged by "The Loser" if you stay in the relationship. Rough Treatment "The Loser" will hurt you on purpose.
Psychologists usually treat the victims of "The Loser", women or men who arrive at the office severely depressed with their self-confidence and self-esteem totally destroyed.
The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of "The Loser" and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.
If your partner possesses even one of these features, there is risk in the relationship.
"The Loser" typically wants to move in with you or marry you in less than four weeks or very early in the relationship. In the beginning of the relationship, you will be exposed to "witnessed violence" - fights with others, threats toward others, angry outbursts at others, etc. You will see and witness this temper - throwing things, yelling, cursing, driving fast, hitting the walls, and kicking things.
That quickly serves to intimidate you and fear their potential for violence, although "The Loser" quickly assures you that they are angry at others or situations, not at you.
At first, you will be assured that they will never direct the hostility and violence at you - but they are clearly letting you know that they have that ability and capability - and that it might come your way.
This is the "honeymoon phase" - where they catch you and convince you that they are the best thing that ever happened to you.
Remember the business saying "If it's too good to be true it probably is (too good to be true)!
Female losers often slap, kick and even punch their male partners when upset. Quick Attachment and Expression "The Loser" has very shallow emotions and connections with others.