Women guide to dating
She enjoys the fact that you’re not tainted and broken like many of the men her age. Older women have an extremely sensitive bullshit detector, so be 100% honest all of the time. If you want to have sex with her but don’t want to be her boyfriend, tell her. Believe me when I say your older woman is well aware of the age difference between you. If she brings it up, tell her your heart doesn’t care how old she is.If she’s flirting with you, take her out as you would any other woman. Your job is to make her feel like a GIRL, not like a friend of your mom’s.Now if on the other hand, a woman says, “Wow this place is a real find!I love the way they do their chicken….” In a man’s mind, he’s scored major points.It’s as if he went into the kitchen and cooked that meal himself.It may sound a little odd to a woman that a man would take such pride in the choices that he makes.
This is never truer than in the case of a restaurant that they have chosen.
Even if she’s attracted to you, most older women will feel some guilt about your age.
Ignore it and move forward as if she’s giving you the green light. If she really wants you to stop pursuing her, she will not be shy about it.
I use a recurring metaphor in my relationship advice: that communication issues arise between men and women because they don’t understand each other’s languages—almost as if they are from different planets. If a woman says that her dish is, for example, too salty, she will think nothing of talking negatively about the food, or even extend the conversation about why the kitchen staff is not more careful in their use of spices.
Since a first date is where a woman and a man first attempt to learn each other’s lingo, it’s also where many relationships go off-kilter, where the first misunderstandings and misperceptions are formed. If it were two women sharing an evening out, complaining about the food or service is perfectly fine, because talking about problems is a bonding experience on Venus.
I’m not saying you can’t check out younger women when you’re alone, but when you’re together, this is an absolute no-no.